"Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his  fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast  gained thy brother.     But if he will not hear thee, then take with thee one or two more,  that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be  established. And if he shall neglect to hear them, tell it unto the church: but if  he neglect to hear the church, let him be unto thee as an heathen man  and a publican." Matthew 18:15-17

A brother once shared that the wisdom God gives us in how to handle disputes is very 
similar to how He deals with us in our trespasses against Him. When there are things in our lives that God does not like, He comes to us 
directly to put light on those things through personal conviction by His Holy Spirit.  If we do not take heed, He will send 
two or three witnesses to confirm the word of the Spirit.  If even then we do not turn, He will expose the issue before 
the church. If our heart is hardened still, we become like the heathen.
Consider how each of these steps illustrates the character of  God.  He continually works to turn us from sin.  God is longsuffering, and there is a whole  lot of 'stepping over' we must do to go around His commands. He gets no pleasure in damning people to hell, but desires that men repent and live (
Ezekiel 18:23-32, 33:11; Luke 15:20-24; II Peter 2:9). Therefore, He gives us plenty of space to do so.
So many are focused on whether Eddie Long coerced young men into sexual relationships.  While this indeed is a serious charge, 
I would like to bring your attention to the mercies of God.  Our eyes are often too LOW.  The bigger question in this matter is what is 
God doing?