A woman asked me recently whether I believe that it is God who joins people together in marriage. I stated that I do, because that is expressly what God says in His word (Matthew 19:6). "Why then" she wondered, "are there so many divorces in Christian marriages?"
I believe this is largely due to the fact that people rarely consider or seek God's plan for their lives. It is enough for me to just profess faith in Christ, but then go on living my life the way that I want to live it.
While it should be God who joins people together, it is common for people to run off and simply do what is right in their own eyes. If we do not follow God's plan, then we have no greater assurance of success for our efforts than does one who is not saved. When it comes to marriage, just like many other subjects, those 'in the church' often have the same mindset as in the world.
So when trials come - the "for worse, in sickness, for poorer" times - our true colors come shining through. We can talk about waiting on God for marriage, but what about waiting on God after marriage? Do we trust Him to work out any issues? Do we consider Him faithful to continue molding our spouses (and ourselves) into His image, even through our experiences in life? Do we actually believe that it is God who joined us together (as we professed) or do we simply conclude that we (and God) made a mistake? Faith in God will compel us to prayer and motivate us to patiently wait on God, even when marriages hit hard times. If our level of commitment in marriage ends at the point where "I" am being put out, then we have never understood the covenant of marriage to begin with.
A friend shared with me last year: "Most people who get married are 2 ticks, each assuming the other is a dog. Their intention is to take, take, take...and when the well runs dry, they say, 'We just don't love each other anymore.' No marriage will last or be truly happy without a continuous pattern of selflessness."
Saturday, October 29, 2011
Thursday, October 27, 2011
Is You Is Or Is You Ain't?
Being Baptized with the Holy Ghost AND Fire
There used to be a song called, "Is You Is Or Is You Ain't My Baby" where a man laments being in love with a woman who seems ambivalent about his affection. The lyrics are in part:
Is you is or is you ain't my baby?The woman is saying all of the right words, but her actions (and maybe her inaction) lead him to think that her professed sentiments just aren't true.
The way you're actin' lately makes me doubt
Yous is still my baby-baby
Seems my flame in your heart's done gone out
This is the same issue that Jesus takes up with the last days church of Laodicea.
"I know thy works, that thou art neither cold nor hot: I would thou wert cold or hot. So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth." Revelation 3:15-16
What is causing the Church to no longer be "hot"? They have lost that holy fire of God. They have no passion or zeal for Jesus Christ. As Jesus puts it, they have become lukewarm or tepid. Because iniquity abounds, the love of many has simply gone cold (Matthew 24:12).
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
You Can Be Free From Masturbation
"For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour; Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God." I Thessalonians 4:3-5
Sexual sin is a real issue for these days, especially for young people. Yet it is those hidden areas such as this which rarely see the light of day because people are often too ashamed to speak of them.
Over the years, various young people have posted or sent comments on this blog asking for prayer about masturbation. Therefore, if the sphere of individuals with whom the Lord has let me come into contact are dealing with such issues, then I know it must be relevant for a broader audience.
If openly discussing such topics offends you then I am sorry....sorry for you that is. Sorry that you have chosen to create for yourself a make-believe world of "salvation" which is too pristine to be touched with such issues as sin. Sorry that your "Christianity" doesn't have enough Christ to engender compassion for those struggling with such real life issues.
Jesus washed the feet of His disciples; yet, some "Christians" are too "saved" to get their hands dirty serving others in the hopes of bringing them into deeper fellowship with Jesus. Let it not be said of us. Not everything about Christianity is sunshine and roses. The truth be told, Jesus is redeeming us from an old sinful nature with its own corrupt and defiled desires. These must be dealt with. If we cannot discuss sin, how can we ever hope to bring such persons struggling with it to salvation?
Monday, October 24, 2011
Demons...Really?
"Thou believest that there is one God; thou doest well: the devils also believe, and tremble." James 2:19
A new Christian recently told me that she was asked, "Do you believe in demons?" It is interesting that this can even be a question in the Christianworld.
My thought is, "Who cannot believe?" Unclean spirits are certainly present throughout Scriptures, so why would we doubt their existence? If Jesus gives those who believe in Him the power to cast out demons, then why do we think they have all of a sudden gone away or are no longer an issue?
There is not much teaching on this subject, and when there is, it is often not based on the Scriptures. The purpose of this post is to get each individual to study this subject for themselves. See what God's word says in the matter, for how will we be able to stand if we are ignorant of the devil's devices?
A new Christian recently told me that she was asked, "Do you believe in demons?" It is interesting that this can even be a question in the Christianworld.
My thought is, "Who cannot believe?" Unclean spirits are certainly present throughout Scriptures, so why would we doubt their existence? If Jesus gives those who believe in Him the power to cast out demons, then why do we think they have all of a sudden gone away or are no longer an issue?
There is not much teaching on this subject, and when there is, it is often not based on the Scriptures. The purpose of this post is to get each individual to study this subject for themselves. See what God's word says in the matter, for how will we be able to stand if we are ignorant of the devil's devices?
Thursday, October 20, 2011
They Thought Jesus Was Crazy
"And when his friends heard of it, they went out to lay hold on him: for they said, He is beside himself." Mark 3:21
When word reached Jesus' family and friends about the great works He was doing in the name of God, they didn't rejoice, sing praises, or seek to join Him. They immediately went to stop Him. Why? They assumed that He had gone crazy.
"Lay hold on" is the word krateō which means: to rule or be master over; to be in possession of, to seize; to retain or restrain.There is nothing passive in their response to Jesus' ministry. They intended to overpower Jesus and subdue Him.
"Beside himself" is existēmi which means: to be out of one's mind, insane
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Psalm 102
The Mystery of Israel & The Church
"Pray for the peace of Jerusalem: they shall prosper that love thee. Peace be within thy walls, and prosperity within thy palaces. For my brethren and companions' sakes, I will now say, Peace be within thee. Because of the house of the LORD our God I will seek thy good." Psalm 122:6-9
Min. Art Katz reviews Psalm 102 as a prophetic message for the end times regarding what must happen before the Deliverer (Jesus) is sent out of Zion.
- Israel's recognition of God's righteous judgments against them
- The Church's identification with, and concern for, the plight of Israel
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