Get OUT of Your Feelings!
It is not uncommon when correcting my children or telling them to do something that they will start telling me about their '
feelings'. One of my more common responses is, "
It is not about how you 'feel'." They must learn to move beyond their '
feelings'.
This is something even many adults don't understand because it goes
directly against the philosophy of this world. The world will tell you that '
feelings' convey deep spiritual truths about your condition which should be explored, evaluated, and heeded. This is a deception.
Oftentimes, your feelings can be deceitful and work against your own well-being.
If I give in to the fact that I don't '
feel' like going to work, then I may very well may find myself out of a job. If I don't '
feel' like cleaning the house, then it is likely we will be living in a pig's pen. If I don't '
feel' like cooking, then my family may develop a substandard diet potentially causing obesity or poor health. If I don't '
feel' like praying then I may find myself unaware of God's will for me that day. If I don't '
feel' like studying the word, then I might find myself drifting away from the Lord and back into the flesh. If we went by what we '
feel' then we probably wouldn't do 95% of what God wants us to do.
Yet, there are professing Christians who literally
wallow in their feelings. One minute they are up, they next they are down. One moment they are hopeful, the next they are pessimistic. Now they are emboldened for the Lord, but later they are filled with fear.
Not one time do they stop to think about the inspiration
behind their feelings. Instead they simply give in to their '
feelings' and conform their reality to them.
As a result, they live as if on an emotional roller coaster...and they expect
you to go along for the ride! Not me. I'm not going to cater to someone's soulish, carnal (and maybe demonic) '
feelings'. So don't come to me with your '
feelings' unless you have
first considered how those feelings line up with the Spirit of God. Some might say, "
That is cold." I say that it is necessary, and it is how I approach even my own '
feelings'.